Short answer: blindfold first, ball gag second, and never both on the very first night. A ball gag is a soft ball on a strap that sits between the teeth so she cannot speak clearly; a blindfold takes away sight so every touch lands harder. At Sinderella the Parda blindfold and ball-gag set is one connected harness for ₹549, the Aankh Micholi satin eye mask and wrist cuffs set is ₹249, and both are in the Naksh 7-piece BDSM kit at ₹849. All in stock today, plain box, COD across India.
This is the step-by-step for the first night of kink: what each piece does, the order to use them in, the safety rules that are not optional, and today's prices.
Ball gag meaning, in one paragraph
A ball gag (people also type "gag ball" or "mouth gag ball") is a ball, usually silicone or rubber, 3.5 to 4.5 cm across, on an adjustable strap that buckles behind the head. It sits between the teeth. The wearer can breathe through the nose and around the ball, can make sounds, but cannot form words. That is the entire point: she cannot tell you to slow down in words, so you agreed a hand signal before, and every sound she makes is louder because of it. It is a piece for the second or third night, not the first.
Why the blindfold comes first
The blindfold is the most powerful piece in any kit and the least frightening. Take away sight and the skin does the seeing. A fingertip on the back of the neck becomes an event. Warm breath on the inner arm makes her hold her own. It costs nothing in trust because she can pull it off in one second, which is exactly why she will leave it on.
Aankh Micholi is a satin eye mask with lace edging that comes with matching satin wrist cuffs for ₹249. Parda is a firmer blindfold mask with the ball gag built into the same harness for ₹549, in red or black. For a first night, Aankh Micholi. For the night you have both agreed to try the gag, Parda.
The first night of kink, step by step
Before: the two-minute talk
Say it plainly: "Aaj raat blindfold try karein? Agar kuch bhi zyada lage, bolna." Agree a stop word that is not "no" or "stop". Pineapple, red, anything odd. When it is said, everything comes off, no discussion.
Step 1: blindfold on, then nothing (2 minutes)
Mask on. Lights low anyway, so she knows it is about feeling, not hiding. Then do nothing for two full minutes. Walk around the bed. Let her hear you. Anticipation is the toy.
Step 2: one touch at a time (10 minutes)
One fingertip, one place, then stop. Different place. Breath instead of touch. A piece of ice from the glass on the side table. The feather from the Sangam kit if you have it. Never two things at once yet. Usne dekha nahi, sirf mehsoos kiya, aur bas.
Step 3: wrists (10 minutes)
Satin cuffs, in front, loose bow. She is now blindfolded and cannot use her hands. Tell her she has one job: to feel. Then go slower than you think is possible.
Stop there on night one.
Take the mask off while she still wants more. Ask what she liked. That conversation is what makes night two happen.
Night two or three: adding the ball gag
- Agree the hand signal first. Two taps on your arm, on the bed, anywhere. Two taps means gag off, immediately. Practise it once with the gag out.
- Nose clear. No gag on a night she has a cold. Breathing must be easy through the nose the whole time.
- Buckle loose. The strap should hold the ball in place, not pull her jaw. A finger fits under the strap.
- Ten minutes, first time. Jaws tire. Take it off before she asks, wipe her mouth, kiss her. Then the blindfold stays on and the night carries on.
- Never leave her alone in it. Not for a glass of water. Not for the door.
With Parda the gag and the blindfold are one harness, so you put the whole thing on at once. That is convenient on night three and too much on night one. Use Aankh Micholi first, Parda later. Two boxes, two nights, less than ₹800 in total.
Ball gag and blindfold price in India, today (28 Sep 2026)
| Item | What you get | Price |
|---|---|---|
| Aankh Micholi satin eye mask + wrist cuffs (Sinderella) | Satin lace-trim blindfold plus a pair of satin wrist cuffs | ₹249 |
| Parda blindfold + ball-gag set (Sinderella) | Eye mask and ball gag built into one buckled harness; red or black | ₹549 |
| MyMuse Blindfold | Satin blindfold only | ₹549 |
| Naksh 7-piece BDSM kit (Sinderella) | Blindfold and ball gag plus wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, collar with lead, rope, flogger | ₹849 |
| MyMuse Play Hard Kit | Blindfold, handcuffs, dice | ₹899 |
Prices read live the same day, in stock only. For a blindfold alone, ours is ₹300 under MyMuse and includes the cuffs; for a gag, the cheapest way to own one in India today is Parda at ₹549, or the whole Naksh kit at ₹849, which is the ball gag plus six other pieces for ₹300 more.
Safety, the short list
- Stop word for the blindfold and cuffs; hand signal for the gag.
- Gag only when breathing through the nose is easy. Ten minutes the first time.
- Strap loose enough for a finger. Check her jaw and her fingers.
- Nothing over the nose, ever. A blindfold covers eyes only.
- Never alone, never asleep, never after drinking enough to slow you down.
Cleaning
Ball gag: warm water and soap after every single use, dry fully. Satin mask and cuffs: hand wash cold, dry flat. Parda's harness: damp cloth, air dry. Keep everything in its box or a pouch.
How it arrives
Plain sealed outer box, no product name, no picture, no lingerie words; sender name Sinderella Apparels. Free delivery across India, 3 to 7 business days in metros. COD with a ₹99 charge at checkout; prepaid has no COD charge and includes a free scratch card. COD hai, plain box hai, aur raat aapki hai.
When she asks "ye kya hai?"
She will. Have the sentence ready: "Blindfold hai. Tumhari aankhein band, baaki sab mera kaam." That is the whole pitch, and it works because it puts her in the position of doing nothing, which is the most relaxing offer a tired woman can hear. Do not explain the gag on the same night; leave it in the box. When she asks about that later, the honest answer is "that one is for when you want me to stop asking permission," and let her decide when that night is.
Red or black: Parda comes in both. Red reads as playful and looks better on a first night; black reads as serious and is what most couples pick the second time. Aankh Micholi is black satin with lace, so it pairs with either.
FAQ: ball gag and blindfold
What is a ball gag?
A soft ball on an adjustable strap that sits between the teeth so the wearer cannot speak clearly but can breathe and make sounds. Used in couples' kink for the feeling of control and the louder sounds it produces.
Can you breathe with a ball gag?
Yes, through the nose and around the ball, as long as the nose is clear and the strap is loose. Never use one with a blocked nose, and take it off after 10 minutes the first time.
Blindfold or ball gag first?
Blindfold, always. It needs no signals and comes off in a second. Add the ball gag on a later night, after a hand signal is agreed and practised.
How much does a ball gag cost in India?
Parda blindfold + ball-gag set is ₹549 at Sinderella (28 Sep 2026). The Naksh 7-piece BDSM kit with a ball gag and blindfold is ₹849.
Is a ball gag legal in India?
Buying one for personal use is not an offence. It ships in plain packaging with the sender shown as Sinderella Apparels.
Which blindfold is best for a first time?
A soft satin mask that covers only the eyes and comes off with one hand: Aankh Micholi (₹249), which also includes satin wrist cuffs for the same night.
Masks, gags and kits are in the Saath sex toys collection. Buy the ₹249 set tonight. Buy the gag when she asks for it.